Loss and grief
My husband didn't cry when our baby died. Why not?Even if you and your partner agree on lots of things, you may show your grief over the death of your baby differently. Everyone grieves in his own way. In general, men aren't as emotional as women. They may feel that they're supposed to be strong and tough. They may not know how to show their feelings. They may think that talking about their feelings makes them seem weak. They may want to try to work through their grief on their own rather than talk to you about it or ask someone for help.
Even if he doesn't show it like you do, know that your partner is in pain after the loss of your baby. Know that each of you shows grief in different ways. Be patient with him. Ask him to talk about your baby and his feelings. But let him grieve in his own way. Eventually you can come together and find ways to remember your baby.