Baby blues and postpartum feelings
You’re so excited to welcome your new baby into your life. But for some moms, feelings of joy and wonder at your new baby mix with feelings of sadness, worry and stress.
In this topic, find out how to manage new mom stress. Learn the difference between baby blues and postpartum depression (PPD). Don’t be afraid to share your feelings with your partner and your provider and rely on your friends and family for support. It’s OK to ask for help when you need it.
If you’re going back to work or school, learn ways to plan ahead to make your return easier.
Most common questions
How do I know if I have postpartum depression?
Postpartum depression (PPD) is intense feelings of sadness that last for a long time after having a baby. About 1 in 8 women have postpartum depression. In fact, it's the most common problem for new moms. It can happen any time in the first 3 months after a baby is born. Signs of PPD include feeling tired all the time, having no interest in your usual activities, gaining or losing weight, changing your eating habits, having trouble sleeping or concentrating, and thinking about suicide or death. If you have five or more of these signs and they last for 2 weeks or longer, you may have PPD. Tell your health care provider about your feelings. She can give you treatment that can help you feel better.
What are the baby blues?
Baby blues are feelings of sadness you may have 3 to 5 days after having a baby. These feelings most likely are caused by all the hormones in your body right after pregnancy. You may feel sad or cranky, and you may cry a lot. By about 10 days after the baby's birth, the baby blues should go away. If they don't, tell your health care provider.
What can I do to get rid of the baby blues?
Talk to your partner or a good friend about how you're feeling. It's really common to have the baby blues, and talking about your feelings may help you feel better. Get plenty of rest. It's hard to rest with a new baby to take care of! Try to sleep when the baby sleeps. Ask your partner, friends and family to help you take care of the baby and chores around the house. It's OK to ask for help so you don't feel like you have to do everything yourself. Finally, get out of the house every day, even if it’s for a short time. Don't feel like you have to stay home all day by yourself. Getting up and out of the house can make you feel energized and back in touch with the rest of the world.