Understanding Your Feelings

Your baby is in a neonatal intensive care unit. If at first you feel distant from your baby, you may wonder if there is something wrong with you. Rest assured that feeling distant is a normal reaction for parents during the early weeks of their infant's NICU stay.

Which Babies Need Care in the NICU?

About 10 to 15 percent of babies born in the United States each year are treated in a neonatal intensive care unit (NICU).  The reasons include premature birth, difficult delivery, breathing problems, infections and birth defects.

The NICU Roller Coaster

The NICU stay can be like a roller coaster ride, with ups and downs. But there are things parents can do to help them cope.

Checking on Your Baby When You’re Not at the NICU

Most NICUs welcome parents' calls to check on their baby any time, day or night, except during the morning and evening shift changes (usually 1-hour periods). Staff in the NICU will provide you with the NICU telephone number.

You and Your Partner

During your baby's NICU stay, your partner can be your best source of support. But sometimes you may face difficulties. Learn how to weather the crisis together.

A Father’s Role

When a dad's baby is in a NICU, he may have to adjust his hopes and dreams. Fathers need support, too. These tips address the dad's unique role.

Parents Without Partners in the NICU

If you are separated, divorced, single or widowed, you may feel especially isolated without a partner to share the burdens and the joys. Confide in a trusted family member or friend about your fears and concerns. Reach out to other NICU parents.

When to Seek Professional Counseling

It's normal to feel a range of emotions when a baby is in the NICU. A professional counselor can help. Some warning signs mean that you must seek help.